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I know it's easy and natural to take offense to a person's lack of interest or availability when it comes to relationships (any type). After all, we're conditioned to make it all about us. How dare you forget this, treat me this way, talk to me like that, etc.? The reality is that majority of the time, the behavior has zero to do with us and everything to do with them. The intent wasn't to be malicious towards us. They probably just had so much going on that their stuff, what